Thursday 25 March 2021
Three Myths About Love - by Engr. Eyitemi Emmanuel
Three Myths About Love
Love is an essential part of life. Everyone dreams of it. Everyone strives for it. And we overthink it, imagining what an ideal love should be in a fictional perfect world. Such a cult feeling, of course, is not complete without myths. Specifically:
1. Each of us has our soul mate in life.
There is a common myth among people, especially women.
When the creator the human, they divided them into two halves-making one half a woman, the other half a man. Then the Creator scattered the halves around the world. Since then, every person in the world has their soul mate. The one – the only one intended for you makes all the others not for you. If you don’t have a great relationship with your partner, your answer is simple: They are not the person destined for me.
All responsibility is shifted to chance, to fate, to the stars, higher or darker forces. Besides, your other half, too, walks the world alone, without you. After all, it would help if you found them.
Big news. There are no predestined halves.
Just as you cannot be the best when starting into a new sport, a perfect relationship also needs time. It begins with creating a happy relationship with the person. This responsibility lies on both of you. Then, only love and respect for each other, over the years, despite the obstacles encountered, can be the impetus that will lead to the feeling that you have a second half next to you.
2. Love happens at first sight
It is not entirely true. Yes, from the first meeting, a person can arouse interest, sympathy, and a desire to get closer. But if we talk about a deep, balanced feeling based on common goals, interests, and values, then one look at a person is not enough to form these. To love your partner, you have to get to know them a little better.
When a man and a woman meet for the first time, they might not feel for each other. In communication, they discover more and more positive qualities in each other. Thus love arises.
It may happen the other way around too. One may fall in love at first sight, with a sense of falling into one’s soul. Then it turns out they are entirely different people who have nothing in common. A relationship with that partner is no longer desired.
You can evaluate your feelings and tell if there was love at first sight after a certain period. Therefore, always give time and a chance to find love.
3. Love passes with time
It is not entirely true. Yes, from the first meeting, a person can arouse interest, sympathy, and a desire to get closer. But if we talk about a deep, balanced feeling based on common goals, interests, and values, then one look at a person is not enough to form these. To love your partner, you have to get to know them a little better.
When a man and a woman meet for the first time, they might not feel for each other. In communication, they discover more and more positive qualities in each other. Thus love arises.
It may happen the other way around too. One may fall in love at first sight, with a sense of falling into one’s soul. Then it turns out they are entirely different people who have nothing in common. A relationship with that partner is no longer desired.
You can evaluate your feelings and tell if there was love at first sight after a certain period. Therefore, always give time and a chance to find love.
It depends on what you mean by love. If it is exclusively sexual desire, then yes, it can fade over the years. Not in the sense that you will no longer want to have sex with your partner, but you may stop going crazy at the very thought of them.
Love has many components, it’s more than sexual attraction. It’s also a mutual heartfelt attachment to each other. It’s the perception of the other person as a part of themselves. It’s the desire to take care of each other.
In any case, attempts to determine the life span of these feelings are meaningless. Each love story is individual and has its term. There is no single formula for calculating the duration of love. It’s mostly up to us.
Clinging to myths and a particular image is more likely to make you miss real magic. Love is like a fingerprint – unique in everyone. The only way to find out its shape is by doing it in real life instead of written stories.
Eyitemi
Monday 20 January 2020
TESTIMONIAL OF A SUCCESSFUL MARKETER
“My name is Biodun Ibukun, when I get to a prospective customer, I say, “Good morning sir, How is
business? I am in your area today for a marketing company “Springs
Communications”. It is less than half the market price. The last guy bought
three pieces because he saw it from our TV adverts for #2,450, original price
is #3,000 but because of the ongoing promotion, it is just #1,500. Check it out.”
Immediately I say “check it out” I will stretch the product to the prospective
buyer to examine. If he take it from me, I continue with the pitching but if he
resist to hold the product,
psychologically, he is not interested to buy. I don’t waste my time with
this type of people. When I am talking to them, I make eye to eye contact. This
is very important for me.
Firstly, it shows that
I am sincere with what I am saying about the product, secondly, in some cases,
the buyer may feel shy to say no than to buy. And when leaving them, I say “bye
bye, have a nice day” even if they don’t buy. Occasionally, they change their
minds, call me back and pick one or two pieces. This is due to my polite
attitude on every prospective buyer.“
The marketer is now an employer of 15 other marketers on
commission.
To get the procedure of becoming a successful marketer, buy
the eBook “The Evolution” authored by Emmanuel E. Binitie. The ebook also
covers all areas of business development, branding and digital marketing.
Tuesday 14 January 2020
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Tuesday 7 January 2020
Benefits of Having a Website
- Creates an online presence, awareness and sets a standard for your business or organization.
- Your business will stand out amongst many
- Having a website proves that you are easily availbale and ready for growth in your business in the ever growing ICT world.
- It connotes your level of connectivity and network in the area of your specialization.
- Your business can be known worldwide
- Having a website generates more revenue.
- It is an easy way of self advertising your business or products and services
- It gives customers/clients confidence in doing business with you.
Monday 30 December 2019
SWEET FACTS ABOUT THE LITTLE BEE HONEY
SWEET FACTS ABOUT THE LITTLE BEE HONEY
Honey, it is sweet. It is timeless. It is every flower in
the middle of summer. It is a timeline into history. It is the only food that
will never spoil. It is a yummy topping on toast. It is pure and unprocessed.
It is soothing in tea. It is Aristotle’s nectar of the gods. It is our memory
bring us back in time to Winnie the Pooh’s passion. It is liquid Gold. It is
great in cooking. It is the only human food processed by insects. It is
primarily composed of glucose, fructose, water, enzymes, minerals and vitamins.
It is delicious, it is lover’s calling with a simple HONEY, be mine!!
B – Binitie
E – Eyitemi
E – Emmanuel
H – Healing
O – Ointment
N – Nutritious
E – Energizing
Y – Yummy
“Start your day by sipping the energy drink prepared with a
spoon of honey, lemon juice with a glass of warm water. Medical experts are of
the opinion that, it helps the kidneys to flush out completely.”
Benefits of Honey
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Prevents seasonal allergies
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Good for skin and safe for sensitive skin.
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Cures sore throat problems
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Heal wounds
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Helps dehydration
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Natural anticeptic
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Skin healing
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Effective treatment for diarrhea, intestinal
tract, ulcer, respiratory organs, hearts and nerves.
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Proper kidney function
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Prevents cancer
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Supports blood formation
Have you ever sat down and think of God’s promises to the
Israelites that he will give them “a land flowing with milk and honey” this
shows that these two substances are needed in human growth and they cannot be
substituted with anything. Honey traditionally symbolizes wetness and also has
a spiritual meaning.
Nutritional Facts
Water ---------------------- 17%
Sugar -----------------------76%
Minerals ------------------- B1, B2, B3, B6
Iron, Sodium, Sulfur, Magnesium, Aluminum, Calcium, Copper
------------7%
Traced Elements
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Nitrogen
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Protein
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Acids and Amino Acids
Wednesday 4 December 2019
2019/2020 Executive Summary (Investors and Shareholders)
Executive Summary 2019/2020
SpringsComm will become a leading player after the phase II
project, with sales doubling, profitability enhanced and opportunity outshining
risks.
·
The Business:- Springs Communications has
progressed rapidly and above plan since opening in 2008.
·
Market Demand:- For travels and tours at
SpringsComm, forecast is to grow at 4%/year to 2022.
·
Industry Competition:- competitive intensity is
medium to high, with the main risks being a copycat entrant or web development going
the way of the fad.
·
Strategy:- SpringComm is already a credible
competitor to the likes of MTN in local “data science and management services”
and will become a regional leader after the phase II project.
·
Resources:- The resource implications of SpringsComm
strategy are in line with pas experience and under control.
·
Financials:- SpringsComm is forecast to grow
revenues to over $10M USD and operating margin to 34% by 2022
·
Risk:- risks of fad, copycat, and shower build
up are outshone by opportunities such as the proven concept, engineering and IT
profitability, and replication at another site.
* Revenues by customer purpose
Business(Engineering & IT Security, Web Development, Travels &
Tours)
Leisure
Health
Consultancy
*Revenues by products
Little Bee Honey
MB Clothing’s
Lifestyle Magazine
Solar Energy &
Inverter
Wednesday 9 October 2019
THE CANCER OF BITTERNESS
Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will
kill your enemies. – NELSON MANDELA
Forgiveness is a door to peace and happiness. It is a small,
narrow door, and cannot be entered without stooping. It is also hard to find.
But no matter how long the search, it can be found. At least that is what the
men and women do as suggested by The Evangelical Ushers of Rock of Ages;
perhaps you, too, will be led to the door of forgiveness. Just remember that
once there, only you can open it.
A few years ago, while on duty as The Head of Operations of
The Security Department at Springs Communications, I was battered, attacked and
wrongfully accused multiple times. I’m not going to tell you the details here –
You will have to read on, keep track and get to read one of my books, precisely
“ The Evolution”. I spent the next month and a half in Air force Base Sickbay.
And for most of that period my situation was touch and go. I came close to
dying, and when I’d pull out of those patches, I wasn’t always sure I even
wanted to live. Fortunately, I received a great deal of love from family,
friends, and supporters, which helped pull me through those difficult days.
Afterward, something gave me a new focus and strengthened my will to live; my
now separated wife Karen Mathe who confidently supported the adoption of our
first child.
Shortly after Daniel was abducted we had a press conference.
Karen Mathe spoke for both of us. She told everyone how grateful I was to be
alive and how proud I was to be The Head of Operations of the Security
Department at Springs Communications. She said then as the head of security I
had always wanted to help others, and that being financially and emotionally
paralyzed hadn’t changed that desire. Then she announced that I had forgiven
the people that blackmailed me and who tried to murder me.
Everyone seemed astounded, and ever since that day I’ve had
people ask me, “WHY? Why mannie, why did you forgive them?” They say, “I cant
even get along with my sister” (or their brother, or mother or dad)” and they haven’t
really done anything to hurt me. They’re just mean. So how on earth could you
do such a thing?”
Again, I’m not going to get into the details except to say
that I needed healing-badly-and found out that the only way forward was with
love. And I learned that one of the most beautiful expressions of love is
forgiving. I know that will sound illogical or impossible to some. Others will
find it downright ridiculous. But I’m talking as one who has lived through
this.
You see, I grew up in an alcoholic and drug inflated
household. My father was never there for us, my mother was a raging alcoholic and
consistently on medical drugs dosage, and when I say raging, I mean pots and
pans being thrown. Demoralizing torturing on the children. I can remember her
throwing chairs and saying all sorts of curses. It took me years to forgive my
father and mother of all the barbaric actions and unthinkable decisions. Why?
Because I wasn’t living in the present.
If you want to know what that has to do with forgiving, let
me tell you; with bitterness, you’re always dragging yourself back, in your
mind, to the past. You keep reliving things people did or said to you, over and
over and over. And in the long run, no one can live in two places at once like
that-in the past and the present. It’ll drive you to the grave.
Bitterness, as
the previous story show, is more than a negative outlook on life. It is a
power-and a destructive and self destructive one at that. Like a cancerous
cell, a dangerous mold, or a spore, it thrives in the dark recesses of the
heart and feeds on every new thought of spite or hatred that come our way. And
like an ulcer aggravated by worry or a heart condition made worse by stress, it
can be physically as well as emotionally debilitating. In fact, if not
addressed and taken care of, bitterness can lead to death.
· Believe in Miracles (Hope for a great sea-change on the far side of revenge. Believe that a further shore is reachable from here. Believe in miracles and cures and healing wells. – SEAMUS HEANEY)
SpringsComm Reporters:
I have lost my daughter, and we shall miss her. But I bear
no ill will. I bear no grudge…That will not bring her back…Don’t ask me,
please, for a purpose… I don’t have an answer. But I know there has to be a
plan. If I didn’t think that, I would commit suicide. It’s part of a greater
plan…and we shall meet again.
Mr. Oluwafemi Omatsheyinmi
Recited by millions
from childhood on, the Lord’s prayer includes the plea, “Forgive us our debts,
as we forgive our debtors.” Familiar as it is, I often wonder whether we
sufficiently consider their meaning. To me, at least, they imply that once we recognize
our own need for forgiveness we will be able to forgive. This recognition does
not come to most of us easily, because it demands humility. But isn’t humility
the essence of forgiveness?
In a chapter of the Gospel of Matthew known as the
Beatitudes, we are told that the meek will be blessed and inherit the earth. And
in the parable of the unmerciful servant, Jesus warns us not to treat others
anymore harshly than we would want to be treated.
In my experience,
the strongest motivation for forgiveness is always the sense of having received
forgiveness ourselves, or-if we do not have that-awareness that, like everyone
else in the human race, we are imperfect and have done things we need to be
forgiven for.
In a passage of the
Gospels known as the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches us not only to love
our enemies, but even to “bless” those who persecute us. It wasn’t just a
sermon. When we love someone who hates us, an ancient Hebrew proverb tells us,
we “heap burning coals on his head.”
A text from the book Strength
to love by Martin Luther King- love is the only force capable of
transforming an enemy into a friend. Forgive when reconciling is impossible.
See how a smallest resentment can blossom and bear deadly
fruit.
A Poem titled “A Poison Tree” by William Blake -
I was angry with my friend.
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.
And I watered it in fears,
Night and morning with my tears;
And I sunned it with smiles,
And with soft deceitful wiles
And it grew both day and night,
Till it bore an apple bright;
And my foe beheld it shine,
And he knew that it was mine,
And into my garden stole,
When the night had veiled the pole:
In the morning glad I see
My foe outstretched beneath the tree.
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